I saw that.
He jumped off the side and straight into the water, I tried to catch him, he was quicker than me. "oh wow, so you're going to drown now, when I was trying my best to save you, really." I put my hand toward him, when I realized I only needed to offer him a finger. This time he climbed on my finger instead of running away. He choose life. Saving a life feels the same to me even if that life is really small. I've never seen a teenie tiny spider be so good and so still as I carried him thru the living room, into the kitchen and out the back door. He really did choose life, I saw that.